It’s unclear if you mean that you don’t want to learn from web sites or that you are saying that you don’t want to learn how to build web sites.
If you are saying that you don’t want to learn from web sites, then that is a little tougher. If you aren’t going to take a class, then that just leaves books and web sites. You mention meetups. As cndragn says, those are a good way to supplement learning, but are not a substitute for the course work you get from the web site.