He might also have been referring to this as an excuse.
To this point, yeah, Iâm a crappy designer too. But you still have to have something. Do your best, and maybe learn a little design. And especially if it is just demo stuff, donât be afraid to borrow some design elements here and there - thatâs part of how you learn.
Iâm sorry that youâre struggling with your family. As to âshould I do AngularâŚâ, that depends. If you see that there are a lot of Angular jobs in your area, then sure. I donât think there are a lot of Vue jobs anywhere, so Angular or React will be your best bet. But pick one and build some nice projects. Build, build, build. And learn, learn, learn.
At the risk of shameless self-promotion, I once wrote up my thoughts on getting the first job here.
As far as âfaking it till you make itâ, if I understand you correctly, youâre talking about pretending to have a competency that you havenât fully acquired. I think that doing that in moderation can be a good thing - thereâs nothing wrong with confidence - as long as you donât take it too far. Donât lie about what youâve know and what youâve done. I may have done the tiniest bit of exaggeration, but mostly for me it was answering questions like, âWell, no, I havenât used the Foobar library much, but it sounds interesting and I canât imagine it being too much of a problem.â Be confident in your abilities, but donât outright lie about what you know or have done.