Understanding unlisting of threads and certain forum changes

Let me know for future notice if this should have two threads I tossed up when creating this one but decided with a degree of interlinkage my best judgement, was to make it one.

For clarity this previous message was sent, being aware, it may not be clear what help still need with regards to my initial message.
It was also the case the thread had taken a detour of which I happy to take at least the majority of the blame therefore it was also seeking to get it both back on topic on moving forwards.
I think I meant to say this in the post and certainly have been think about saying so since soon after.

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