what are good websites or books for beginners to learn from about coding but mostly vocabulary
Have you heard about freeCodeCamp?
There are many webistes here are some 
Bitdegree
Udemy
SoloLearn
Coursera
Khan Academy
edX
GeeksforGeeks.
There are a lot of sites . you can easily find them online.
dont know any books 
but codepen is great for practicing code, apps like grasshopper or mimo are also good.
and freecodecamp yt-channel.